Thursday, March 1, 2012

Integrity's God hole......

Proverbs 11:3
"The integrity of the upright will guide them, but the perversity of the unfaithful will destroy them."


   Have you tried to define integrity? I have a placard I received as a gift that says “Integrity is what you do when no one else is watching.” Integrity, I think to most of us, means to do the right thing. I love Webster’s definition:
1: firm adherence to a code of especially moral or artistic values: incorruptibility
2: an unimpaired condition: soundness
3: the quality or state of being complete or undivided: completeness

   While it is true that there is a “moral code” we can conduct ourselves by, this would, as Christians, make us no different than a self-help book club, Boy Scout troop, or other religion.
I think that for Christians, numbers 2 and 3 apply more. Let’s take these in context with our identity in Christ and Him abiding in us.

   An unimpaired condition or soundness. To be unimpaired means to be completely free to be as you were designed to be. A car is driving down the road and faces a speed bump. What happens? The car slows down. A car is driving down the road and faces a brick wall. What happens? A crash test dummy commercial. Which of these two cars were impaired? Both were. By definition each car was impaired because something was in its way and caused it to adjust what it was doing. This is key. In our lives, living with integrity is less about trying harder and more about giving up things that adjust our God given course.

   Trying harder won’t make us honest. If you are a new creation in Christ then you are honest. Period. The old man is dead. The problem comes when we do not live out our New Life honestly. When we allow something to adjust who we are and what we are doing, then we have stopped living with integrity. We have allowed something else to define who we are.

   The quality or state of being complete or undivided: completeness. I had a family member who once struggled with alcoholism, among other things in his life. Sitting on the couch with this very talented and gifted man who had thrown his life away, he said something to me that was so profound that I knew he hadn’t fully grasped it yet. “KC”, he said “We all have a God hole. There is just this huge hole inside of us that nothing else can fill. It’s like in kindergarten when the kids have to put the round peg into the round hole. Nothing else will fit in our God hole other than God. We try to fill it with other things and we are just incomplete.” It was, I believe, a confession of sorts about his own life.

   If a building is to maintain its integrity, then every bit of the design structure must be in place. Every pillar or brick or cement block. Whether it is a sky scraper or an outhouse, for a building to maintain its integrity it must be true to its original design. I believe that integrity, as far as you and I are concerned, is about maintaining our proper, God given design. Our God hole must be full. You cannot walk in integrity if you are not true to your original purpose, which is to love and be loved by God. Take out Christ who is the “Chief Cornerstone” and the whole thing just falls apart.
   
   As a leader, I must do everything I can to make sure that I live a life that is unimpaired by things that would distract from God and to stay true to my original design. A man or woman of integrity has X-ray vision. They can see their own heart, and what God has put in there, and they stay true to that image.

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