Galatians 6:8-9
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For he who sows to his flesh will of the flesh reap corruption..."
It has been said that the definition of insanity is to do the same thing over and over again expecting a different result. To err is human. This is true. But to continue to make the same mistake over and over again expecting that your situation will improve over time would fit into this definition of insanity.
Bad reactions, believed lies, and harmful relationships are three very common areas of "sowing into the flesh." Daily we can sow into these things and may not even know it. Mainly because these three areas seem automatic. We believe lies from the enemy and we are deceived. But deception, by nature, means you don't know you are deceived. Believed lies leads to bad reactions. The Enemy tells an ex-inmate "You have no worth. You will never amount to anything." If this is believed then it forces a bad reaction. The ex-inmate says "I have no worth, so I will make people value me." and many times this is seen through abuse, or acts to gain attention or to prove themselves to others. Rebellion to authority happens because so many times if we believe that we have no worth, then we will not submit ourselves to others who we feel may judge us. Submitting to authority is impossible because we cant let others see that we have no worth. To those who have believed this lie submission equals worthlessness.
And bad relationships follow. Because if we believe a lie, then we will surround ourselves with people who make us comfortable in that lie and it simply reinforces that lie and makes us as comfortable as we can be in it. It hurts to change a dressing on a wound, because the wound has to be opened up. So we cover it with bad relationships, or a lack of relationships. But any relationship or lack of relationship based on believed lies will only continue to sow into the flesh.
Any time we allow the flesh to win, anytime we feed it, we strengthen it and set ourselves up for failure.
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But he who sows to the spirit will of the spirit reap everlasting life. and let us not grow weary in well doing..."
Sowing into the Spirit will give us life. It is the only way to break the cycle of lies, reactions and bad relationships. Sowing life and not death is as simple as choosing to walk with Christ. You cannot walk with Christ and not be sowing into the Spirit. Why? Because what He says to you is the seed of Life.
What does sowing into the Spirit look like? Matt 13:1-23 Tells the parable of the sower.
"On the same day Jesus went out of the house and sat by the sea. 2 And great multitudes were gathered to Him, so that He got into a boat and sat down; and the whole multitude stood on the shore.
3 Then He spoke many things to them in parables, saying: “Behold, a sower went out to sow. 4 And as he sowed, some seed fell by the wayside; and the birds came and devoured them. 5 Some fell on stony places, where they did not have much earth; they immediately sprang up because they had no depth of earth. 6 But when the sun was up they were scorched, and because they had no root they withered away. 7 And some fell among thorns, and the thorns sprang up and choked them. 8 But others fell on good ground and yielded a crop, some a hundredfold, some sixty, some thirty. 9 He who has ears to hear, let him hear.”"
10 And the disciples came and said to Him, “Why do you speak to them in parables?” 11
He answered and said to them, “Because it has been given to you to know
the mysteries of the kingdom of heaven, but to them it has not been
given. 12 For whoever has, to him more will be given, and he
will have abundance; but whoever does not have, even what he has will be
taken away from him. 13 Therefore I speak to them in parables, because seeing they do not see, and hearing they do not hear, nor do they understand. 14 And in them the prophecy of Isaiah is fulfilled, which says:
‘Hearing you will hear and shall not understand,
and seeing you will see and not perceive;
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for the hearts of this people have grown dull.
Their ears are hard of hearing,
and their eyes they have closed,
lest they should see with their eyes and hear with their ears,
lest they should understand with their hearts and turn,
so that I should heal them.’
16 But blessed are your eyes for they see, and your ears for they hear; 17
or assuredly, I say to you that many prophets and righteous men desired to see what you see, and did not see it, and to hear what you hear, and did not hear it.
18 Therefore, hear the parable of the sower: 19 When
anyone hears the word of the kingdom, and does not understand it, then
the wicked one comes and snatches away what was sown in his heart. This
is he who received seed by the wayside. 20 But he who received the seed on stony places, this is he who hears the word and immediately receives it with joy; 21
yet he has no root in himself, but endures only for a while. For when
tribulation or persecution arises because of the word, immediately he
stumbles. 22 Now he who received seed among the thorns is he
who hears the word, and the cares of this world and the deceitfulness of
riches choke the word, and he becomes unfruitful, 23 But he
who received seed on the good ground is he who hears the word and
understands it, who indeed bears fruit and produces: some a hundredfold,
some sixty, some thirty.”
What is being sown in this parable? Well, Jesus is pretty plain about this. He says "the word".
Isn't it great that the one who loves you the most, the one who wants to talk to you every minute of every day,when He speaks, actually fixes your life? Sowing into your Spirit is this simple....Hear God, respond to God. Hearing God for your situation is the key. This is only accomplished through time spent with Him. All that is left is for us to respond. God does not force your hand. God will give you every answer for every test and pop quiz you will take in life, but its no good if you don't write down the answers.
Patiently hearing and responding to God until your circumstance improves can get hard. I want to encourage you with this word study from Skip Moen on the word patience. As stretched as we can get, patience for our circumstances seems impossible if you look at it in the wrong light........
love is patient 1 Corinthians 13:4 NASB
Patient – The Greek word is makrothumia. It comes from two older words, makros meaning “long” (i.e. an extended temporal duration) and thumos
meaning “passion.” Love has a passion that lasts. That seems very
nice, the sort of thing we like to hear at a wedding or read in a
Hallmark card. We generally see patience as something that we do, by
obligation or commitment. To be patient is to take active steps that
overcome our natural response of self-protection, defense or revenge.
But this particular word chosen by Paul has a different context. In the Bible, makrothumia focuses our attention on God, not on our behavior. It is God’s gift of the postponement of judgment,
always with a view toward repentance. Once we understand that God has
postponed the judgment we deserved, we are also required to postpone our
judgment of others. Patience becomes a necessary quality of service to
God. The obligations of hesed require that we exercise the same quality of makrothumia toward others that God demonstrated toward us. In other words, you can’t be a follower of the King and have a short temper.
How do I express love as patience? I leave things up to God.
Patience puts all of the circumstances of life in God’s hands,
expressing the confidence that God will act as the divine judge. It
does not demand repentance as a condition of performance but rather
shows the gift of grace as a worshipful response to the pardon we
received from God. It always allows a space for repentance. Dr. Laura
once said that it wasn’t necessary to forgive someone until that person
demonstrated a willingness to reform. She was wrong. Once we accept
God’s hesed, we incur the obligation regardless of the other’s action.
In this verse makrothumia is passive. The word expresses something that happens to me, not something I make happen. Love is patient does not mean that I exercise my mental and emotional muscles to attain a higher plane of ethical action. It means that I wait – that I accept what comes, I allow whatever befalls me.
Of course, this can only be done because I know that God is love and
what befalls me is ultimately in His hands, under His control and within
His power. Love is patient is another glorious way of saying that I am
not in control, that my world is not up to me.
Patience (makrothumia) is not self-control. It is not biting my tongue, enduring attacks, holding back my desires, restraining my self-defense. Patience is giving up my life to God, no matter what happens to me.
Love as patience means that I turn it over to God and wait, just like
He waited for me, just like He withheld judgment from me.
If your love is patient, you wait – because God waited. That is enough.
Topical Index: patience, makrothumia, 1 Corinthians 13:4